hai, i go by candie !
i speak ENG and use any pronouns.
My timezone is gmt+8 & from ASEAN.

likes being carried, skinship, cloudy days, comfy clothes, art of ocs, rainbows, pastel, attention
dislikes school, exercise, humidity, insects, bugs, exercise, food (picky eater) socialising, annoying ppl, pictures
favorites games sky: cotl webtoons watermelon, lumine, castle swimmer, daybreak, suitor armor, the blind prince + more artists baby bugs, mom (devi mccallion), crywank, lauv, nf, underscores, role model, eden + more

DNI : I absolutely do not condone terfs, transphobia, homophobia, sexism, racism, mysogynists, xenophobia, and any hateful group under the sun. Do not send me unsolicited advertisements, or start calls without permission. I block people back (mutual block).

BYF : Before interacting with me, please be noted that I do not respond to empty chat requests. I delete chats with strangers I don't recognise unless you state what you you need within the first few messages.Note that I flirt jokingly. It is not serious. Do not persue a romantic interest with me online. I am not interested. Joke flirting back back is perfectly acceptable but do not make s*xual or serious romantic advances.I make typos often, I don't correct myself if I think what I meant to type is obvious. I type informally, use caps frequently (emphasis / expressing excitement), may sound angry or aggro (I'm not). I rarely use tone tags (except /s + srs), I make kys/kms jokes with close friends. I only use she/he/they pronouns for other people.


Please confront me directly if I make you uncomfortable. I am socially inept and have no social awareness. If you choose not to communicate your issues with me, with me, then I will take it personally. You do not have an obligation if neither of us are established friends.My boundaries are quite loose. If we are friends I will tell you. If you display negative signs when being confronted, I will not do so. If I consider you a friend, but you don't feel the same way, tell me in advance.I prefer texting in group chats. I tend to be very dry in direct messages. I will not text first, sorry. I rarely keep up in DMs or text often. It's not personal. I don't have object permanence. Sometimes I will dislike you just because we don't click, that is fine too. Feel free to ask, I'll tell you. Sometimes I will ignore DMs if I don't have the energy to talk. I will always respons eventually, message me again if I forgot and didn't respond for over a day.I clear DMs/chats every now and then. If it is a private group chat, feel free to ask me if I left accidently/why I left. You can always DM me (again) if we were having a conversation before. DNI does not apply if we are friends/mutuals or I interact first.